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EP36: You Are Not Your Commission Slip

Apr 17, 2025

EP36: You Are Not Your Commission Slip

Episode Summary

What happens when the sales board goes blank… and your confidence goes with it? In this episode, we’re taking aim at one of the most toxic beliefs in the car business: “You are only as good as your last deal.” Spoiler alert—you’re not.

What You'll Learn

  • •This isn’t just another sales training episode.
  • •We dive into: The emotional trap of commission-based identity Stoic wisdom for surviving a slow month Why legacy beats leaderboard every time And how kindness is the KPI...
  • •You are not your commission slip.
  • •You are your consistency.
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Episode Breakdown

  • •What happens when the sales board goes blank… and your confidence goes with it?
  • •In this episode, we’re taking aim at one of the most toxic beliefs in the car business: “You are only as good as your last deal.” Spoiler alert—you’re not.
  • •This isn’t just another sales training episode.
  • •We dive into: The emotional trap of commission-based identity Stoic wisdom for surviving a slow month Why legacy beats leaderboard every time And how kindness is the KPI...
  • •You are not your commission slip.
  • •You are your consistency.

Key Takeaway

What happens when the sales board goes blank… and your confidence goes with it?

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What happens when the sales board goes blank… and your confidence goes with it

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In this episode, we’re taking aim at one of the most toxic beliefs in the car business: “You are only as good as your last deal.

” Spoiler alert—you’re not.

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